STANDFIRM COMMUNITY | Kimberly Weeks

The Story

Welcome to StandFirm, an online transformational community for women who want to heal from toxic relationships.

As the founder of StandFirm, I've worked with hundreds of female clients, colleagues and students over the years and it is clear that there is a dire need for safe, confidential spaces for women dealing with toxic relationships. StandFirm was born out of an understanding that women heal more quickly, more soundly and with greater sustainable success when they are supported in community with the tools and resources needed for lasting change.

No longer will fear, guilt and obligation be the ropes that bind women to giving themselves away in service of survival or with the hope that their sacrifice will be returned.

Our success path anchors on principles of prioritizing a woman's personal wellbeing, putting her needs first as well as teaching people how to treat you by how that woman treats herself.

No more meeting people in the middle or compromising safety for connection. The priority for thriving, healed women is self-care, self-honor and fierce self-compassion through seeing herself through God's eyes and through her highest good.

The foundation of the community is built on the word of God in Galations 5:1.

"It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, therefore, and do not allow yourselves to be entangled again by a yoke of bondage."

If you are in need of this kind of healing cocoon, get signed up and begin choosing your way to true freedom. I can't wait to welcome you to the sisterhood of Firmistas!

~ Kimberly Weeks, Founder of StandFirm

Start Your Freedom Journey Here

Healing Starts Here.

Strength Is Already Within You.

Welcome to a safe, empowering space for women who are ready to reclaim their lives after toxic relationships. You are not alone — and your healing journey begins today.

Why We Exist

You Deserve Freedom, Wholeness, and Joy.

Toxic relationships leave deep scars — emotionally, physically, psychologically and spiritually.

At STAND FIRM, we believe you don’t have to walk this path alone.

Our online community is a sanctuary designed to help you detox, rebuild, and transform.
Here, you’ll find women just like you — women who are choosing themselves, finding their strength, and building lives full of peace, purpose, and power.

What You’ll Find Inside

Inside STAND FIRM, You’ll Get:

💬 Private, Supportive Community: No judgment. Only encouragement, connection, and understanding.

🎯 Structured Healing Programs: Guided phases to help you move from survival to true thriving — including Triage, Detox, Stabilize, Relationships Rehab, and more.

🧘‍♀️ Tools for Nervous System Regulation: Learn how to calm your mind, reconnect with your body, and feel safe in your own skin again.

🕊️ Spiritual Grounding: Biblical foundations and grounding truths in God's word to anchor your healing.

📚 Workshops & Resources: Expert-led sessions on boundaries, self-worth, rebuilding trust, and more.

💖 Real Relationships: Meet women who truly get it — and will cheer you on as you heal, rise, and reclaim your power.

You were never meant to carry this alone. Step into your healing — and your future.

Andrea, IN

"I was struggling with a C-PTSD diagnosis and had little awareness that I was trapped in an abusive marriage—covert abuse that went unnoticed for nearly a decade. If not for the Lord leading me to StandFirm, Kim and her deep understanding of trauma and abuse, I don’t know where I’d be today. I believe, The Stand Firm community is more than just support—but a source of knowledge, strength, and light, equipping women with the self-awareness and discernment essential for breaking free and truly healing after abuse. I am entering a new era of life called “Narc free” living!"

Suzanne, TN

"Before joining the StandFirm community, I was trapped in a cycle of self-doubt, emotional numbness, and confusion after years of toxic relationships. I didn’t even recognize myself anymore. From the moment I joined, I felt seen, heard, and understood—without judgment.
The StandFirm program gently guided me to reconnect with my truth, release what was never mine to carry, and rebuild my confidence from the ground up. The community became my safe space, a circle of women who genuinely got it, and who held space for my healing in ways I never thought possible. Today, I stand firmer in my boundaries, trust my instincts again, and most importantly, I feel free. I’m no longer defined by what happened to me—I’m defined by how I rose from it. StandFirm didn’t just help me heal. It helped me come home to myself."

Chanel Nicole, GA

"Joining the StandFirm community was the turning point I didn’t know I needed. After surviving toxic relationships, I was left emotionally exhausted, disconnected from myself, and unsure how to move forward.

From day one, StandFirm gave me a safe, supportive space to start unpacking the pain. With each ritual call, each journal prompt, and every honest conversation with other women in the program, I became more grounded, more confident, and more whole. The StandFirm community helped me remember that I am not broken—I was just bruised. And now, I’m stronger, wiser, and finally free to love myself fully. I’ll forever be grateful for the guidance and sisterhood that helped me stand firm in who I am."

The Phases of Transformation

Healing is a journey. We walk it together. You don’t have to figure it out alone. You’ll guided you, step-by-step.

Phase 1: Triage

Women feel shock, immobilized, disoriented and disconnected from what’s really happening or happened to them during toxic relationships. They need truth serum to wake up from the abuse spell. Triage allows members to evaluate the situation that they are in or have just come out of to understand the impact of the relationship.

Phase 2: Detox

It’s important for you to get away from the toxic relationship because continued contact with the toxic abuser further damages and keeps you as a woman under the influence of the abuse. Detox helps you break the trauma bond and begin withdrawing from the highs and lows of the addiction to the abuse cycle.

Phase 3: Stabilize

After you go no or low contact, you will be able to focus on repairing your body, nervous system, daily habit routine, and re-grounding yourself in what supports you functionality everyday. Stabilize helps you re-orient your life and create new habits of mind as you heal mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

Phase 4:
Relationships Rehab

You need both an online community and an in person community as you go through the transformation process. Most abuse targets are alienated and isolated from their family, friends, faith community, and support network in the abuse cycle. When there is a discard, breakup or conflict in the relationship, they are without tangible support. Rehab helps you establish a safe support system as you recover.

Phase 5:
Relationship Autopsy

Women who have been in toxic relationship dynamics remember the abuser from the "good times' and the love bombing phase. They experience cognitive dissonance, disorientation and disconnection from self, their values and their needs. The Autopsy phase helps you evaluate the relationship honestly from both the toxic person’s behavior and your own. This is a vital step to prevent future harm.

Phase 6:
Relationship Release

The trauma bond and spell you were under keeps an energetic tie to the toxic relationship and makes it easy to go back to it. This is why many survivors end up back in the abusive relationship with their partner and/or get into another abusive relationship with a new one. The Release phase supports you in practices that cut off connection to your ex partner and the patterns of the relationship.

Phase 7:
Transform

Now that you’ve gone through the process of breaking free from the power and control of the toxic relationship, have started practicing self-honoring habits and routines and accepted the truth of what situation you were really in, it's time to build a new life. The Transform stage is important to maintain the progress you’ve made and continue to grow and blossom into the person you desire to be.